Sessions
Big News
I have some big news for my devotees, as of November 2026, I am opening my diary again for a small number of 1-to-1 sessions. Email Enquires accepted now.
These are only for subs whose interests align with mine, and only where the practical arrangements work.
Please read all of this first and be sure you meet my criteria.
Criteria – Very Important
I only session with clients based in the UK. You must be able to drive yourself. There are no taxis where I am based, and my chambers are only reachable by car.
I do not offer online, telephone, or video sessions.
My sessions are longer because I want time to develop the dynamic. I do not want to rush so the psychology, setup and your submission can develop properly. Practically because my chamber is off the beaten track – it may take you time to get to me, and I only session once a day.
I am best suited to more experienced players. I prefer people who already know their tastes and limits within BDSM and who want a Domina who can develop that further, skilfully and creatively, into something deeper or more intense.
I do not wear latex and I do not have a latex wardrobe for you. (I have one latex body bag.) If latex is essential you may bring your own, but anything more elaborate and I am not a good match.
If you want to bring your own kit or clothing and wear it, you may. I will enjoy dressing you up and using it in the session.
My Interests
I want to session with those who share my interests, especially extreme total power exchange, D/S, verbal humiliation, extreme humiliation and control. I like using BDSM machinery and I am skilled with it: milking machines, fucking machines, screens so you are made to watch yourself, and elaborate electrical play. I adore elaborate heavy bondage, some medical play, NT, CBT, CP, strapon, WS, & crossdressing/dollification/sissification.
I prefer to build a long-term relationship, if the connection is there. I have, however, limited availability, so if you want very regular one-to-one contact I will not suit you.
I would remind all prospective clients that much of my online content and films span many years; I am now a much older lady.
I also suit older clients who still want to play hard but need a less energetic settings, more comfortable positions, cannot kneel easily, or need medical issues and abilities taken into account — in a safe environment.
I am happy to play with clients who remain chaste or in chastity throughout the entire session, where the focus is entirely on my enjoyment of their service.
Every scene is unique and tailored to the person serving me. I am usually happy to wear something that suits your fetish, if possible. I have an extensive wardrobe. I like using clothing as another way to control you and to remind you of the hold I have over you.
I do not offer intimate sexual services, unlike what you may have seen in my TEM films and clips. That is for my personal slaves and is not something I offer with new clients in session. That said, sessions are hugely erotic for me. Nudity is not a problem and happy endings are possible — but they must be earned. I use my body as a weapon to torment you. I session as an outlet for my cruel needs and will use you for my pleasure.
Availability, Location & How My Sessions Run
I only offer sessions from my purpose-built, exceptionally well-equipped chambers very near Junction 17 of the M4 (SN14 6BF), Chippenham, Wiltshire, UK. There is a shower and kitchen area available for your use.
There is very secure off road parking directly outside the chamber.
Approximate travel times are about 1.5 hours travelling west from where London’s M25 (Junction 15) meets the M4 (Junction 4b) near Heathrow, or about 2 hours south from central Birmingham.
I do not like our playtime to feel rushed. For a first visit I only offer:
a 2hr 30min session. Of this, 1 hour 45 minutes will be actual play time; the rest is for preparation and post-session decompression (tea etc.) together. This includes 15 minutes for you to prepare yourself and follow the instructions I will probably give you before the session, plus up to 30 minutes at the end for us to decompress while you remain in a respectful state. The fee is £440.
OR
a 2hr 45min session. Of this, 2 hours will be actual play time; the rest is for preparation and post-session decompression (tea etc.) together. This includes 15 minutes for you to prepare yourself and follow the instructions I will probably give you before the session, plus up to 30 minutes at the end for us to decompress while you remain in a respectful state. The fee is £530
A non-transferable, non-refundable deposit of £200 is required in advance to secure an appointment.
I expect you to contact me the day before our session, by 4pm at the latest, to confirm you will attend. I will reply so you know everything is set. My bookings are 100% firm. I do not cancel or reschedule. Please make every effort to arrive on time, especially on a first visit, when finding the location may take a little longer. Arriving late disrupts the flow I prepare for the session. (If you arrive very late I may cancel the session.)
I usually need 2-3 weeks’ notice to book in a session. Longer sessions are offered only to subs I have already sessioned with and know well.
I am currently available Tuesday to Saturday, approximately 10am – 4pm. Availability is limited. I cannot accept telephone bookings. All appointments must be arranged by email. I will require a mobile number from you but I will only use it in an emergency and it will remain completely discreet.
Limits & Privacy
I do not participate in activities that draw blood, hard sports, or sessions involving heavy rubber. I do not session with anyone under the influence of alcohol or drugs. I am a highly experienced – safe, sane and risk-aware player who always respects set limits.
I am extremely private and discreet, I treat your privacy very seriously. I expect the same in return.
If you have specific session requirements, I am still open to hearing from you and can decide whether I am interested and suited to your interests.
So, with full understanding of all the above, if you are interested in booking a session please reply by email to me with a brief (or long) introduction, including what is relevant from the list below:
What you are looking for from the session.
Specific interests, fantasies or previous experiences.
Any preferences for the session (including outfits etc.)
Hard limits & medical considerations I should be aware of.
Mistress Sidonia
My contact for emails is below. Please put MSVB Session Inquiry in the Subject.
